This week I chose to answer 2 questions from the same person – simply because I love the way she expressed herself – it was so true and natural.
(I have shortened her email, so that the main question comes out)…
Question: Looking for love – “nice compatible guy”..is it on the cards? When?Female (27), Mumbai India
Although you’re looking for love, but I feel that you’re quite content with the independence you have right now. I also believe that you’re not ready for a relationship yet, as you have a lot to discover and enjoy. Just breathe – soak in all the new experiences that are to arrive in your life – enjoy them. You’re at a point in life where you will be learning so much so don’t put pressure on yourself in desiring for that compatible guy, because he’ll come. The time frame is March-end to mid-April 2012.
Question: Desire to change lifestyle – finding it difficult. Surrounded by chaos, despite being a calm person. What is going on?
Female (27), Mumbai India
O’ wow!! You seem to have taken on a challenge!! I see that there is a lot you want to tackle..but all at once? Now that’s not wise at all! Instead, reflect upon and make the desired changes as a part of a gradual proces rather than a drastic one which is burdening you more rather than you enjoying these changes that you’re making out of choice. You’re in danger of wanting to do so much with your mental pattern that your real core issues will be left un-addressed and will end up just coming back. So be wise, and take it slow. Reflect, understand and then make the correct type of change. Doing it this way will mean that you’ll get better support and less of a chaos.
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