A single mother from Spain got in touch this week and shared her concern for the upbringing of her daughter. We all want the best for our child. We want to make them feel protected and loved, yet we get caught in the fear of whether we’ll achieve it or not. Sometimes we just need to take that deep breath, re-gain focus and move ahead stronger.

Question 1:
What area of work should I focus on for the well being of me and my daughter?
Female (33), Malaga – Spain

Tarot says:

You don’t have the best of focus right now to be self-employed. If you do wish to be self employed then you should hold on till 2013 to do that. This year you should focus on being in a job. Areas of work that suit you are: Food related; Anything education related – you could even give private art classes, or even work for a stationery design company; Property/Estate Agent.

You have the tendency to store too much within you, but seem quite unsure of how to execute what you have. You can’t seem to find the correct outlet for it, which is why finding employment with companies related to the work suggested above will give you the required mental and family stability. 2011 was a tough year for you, but what’s great is that you’re coming to the end of it – prepare yourself for a great 2013, but in the mean time, in 2012, don’t be unrealistic. At this stage it would be good to remain calm, focussed and determined. Remember not to get too stubborn this year.

Your daughter will be just fine.

Question 2:
How can I make the best of the situation with my ex (for the sake of my child)?
Female (33), Malaga – Spain

Tarot says:

Your ex seems to be quite fickle minded. He seems to lack balance and harmony within himself, which is why the communication between the both of you has been quite bad. This is a year where he will be more communicative, but again the harmony doesn’t seem to come across. The cards suggest that you will need to be calmer when you do communicate with him. You need to command what you wish for regarding your daughter, but without any arrogance. It needs to be command which shows authority in a controlled and gentle manner. Aggression won’t get you far. You too need to develop that harmony within yourself to be able to tackle this situation. So take a deep breath and think before you speak. Evaluate what you’re about to say, understand the consequences – if it still sounds fine then say your piece.

It will definitely work out better, plus the required financial support will come through too. Just don’t forget to take that deep breath!!

~Shruti

(If you too would like to have a chance at getting a free 1 question reading then email me your question on tcp@itstarot.com)

www.facebook.com/itstarot

We all go through a time when we’re at a cross road, unsure of what path to take, what path is better for us. Sometimes we just need to let things fall in to place – not play with it too much and add to our confusions. And at other times we need to listen to our instincts – they direct us the best.

Question 1:
Will I find a legal or a business job in NYC in the near future?
Female (33), New York (USA)

Tarot says:

You would do better in the field of business – you have the energy required to be able to push along a business. You will know and understand instinctively how to develop this profession. Although Law is something you can do well in, you may feel that you hold the power to be able to make a difference, yet this is where you can get crushed and may feel unhappy. Your sense of compassion can over-ride the crudeness that exists in this profession. Overall your business cards are much stronger, you’ll be able to build your finances, plan and work on new concepts and you’ll just feel a lot more satisfied. You’ll gain some strong positions in business, which you will be proud of.

January end through to February bring together a better time for you to find that job in NYC. It’ll work out well for you, so lose any confusion that you’re carrying around. Get focussed and continue to develop the faith you already have. You’re an instinctive person, your intuition is strong, so use that when you do get the job.

~~~

Question 2:
My wife is a Hindu and I am a Muslim. What religion will our child follow? I want to also understand if we will be able to direct our child better when it comes to religion?
Male (29), Toronto (Canada)

Tarot says:

Your wife will make sure that the children are brought up in a balanced way, in fact she will initiate the teachings of Islam in the children. She will make great efforts into ensuring that the children understand Islam – this is where she will need your support, especially since it isn’t showing up in the cards. You will need to play an active role too. You will need to lead by example. Yes your home does reflect a Hindu way of life, yet the children won’t feel confused – instead they will enjoy the diversity. They will be more respectful and will feel more empowered.

As a couple you don’t have much to worry about when it comes to this topic – it will all fall into place smoothly.

~

~Shruti

(If you too would like to have a chance at getting a free 1 question reading then email me your question on tcp@itstarot.com)
www.facebook.com/itstarot